Getting It Right
Four decisions, in the order they matter.
Skip the jargon. These are the questions that actually determine whether the policy does its job.
1. How much, calculated rather than guessed
Ten to twelve times income is a decent starting point and a poor stopping point. Do it properly by adding up what the money has to accomplish: pay off the mortgage, clear the debts, replace your income for as many years as your family would realistically need, and cover education if that is part of your plan. Then subtract what already exists in savings and any group coverage.
Two things get missed almost every time. Final expenses are real money, with a national median near $8,300 for a burial. And a stay-at-home parent needs coverage, because replacing that work with paid childcare is an immediate, ongoing cost that arrives in the same month as the grief.
2. Term versus permanent, honestly
Term is right for most people, most of the time. Your exposure has a shape: it is largest while the mortgage is big and the kids are small, and it shrinks as both do. Term matches that shape and costs a fraction of permanent coverage for the same death benefit.
Permanent coverage is a legitimate tool with narrower uses: a dependent who will need support for life, estate liquidity so heirs aren't forced to sell something, funding a business buy-sell agreement for a company you own, or a final expense need that never expires. If one of those is you, we will say so. If none of them are, we will say that too, and quote you the term policy. For anything touching estates or trusts, talk to an attorney and your CPA. We do insurance; they do that.
3. The layering trick nobody mentions
You do not have to buy one round number. A common and smarter structure is laddering: a larger 20-year policy covering the mortgage window, plus a smaller 30-year policy for the long tail. Total coverage is high while you need it high, then steps down when your obligations do, and the cost is usually lower than one big policy for the full term.
While you are at it, pay attention to the conversion privilege on any term policy. It lets you turn term into permanent later without new medical underwriting, which matters enormously if your health changes. It has a deadline, and the deadline is easy to sleep through.
4. The Arizona rules you should actually know
Start with the one that helps you. Under ARS 20-1203, an Arizona life policy must give you a grace period of at least 30 days — or one month of not less than thirty days — on any premium after the first, and the policy stays in full force the whole time. If someone dies during that window before you have paid the overdue premium, the insurer does not deny the claim; it deducts the premium from the proceeds. A missed payment is not a lost policy.
Now the one nobody tells you. Arizona does not give you a statutory right to name a second person to receive a lapse notice. Some states do — California requires insurers to offer it, and you will find plenty of articles online describing that rule as if it were universal. It isn't, and Arizona is one of the states without it. So build the backstop yourself: put the premium on autopay, keep your address current with the carrier, and make sure your spouse or an adult child knows which company holds the policy. Ask your carrier whether it will add a courtesy second contact — many will, as a service rather than a legal obligation.
And if a policy has already lapsed, do not assume it is gone. ARS 20-1213 requires a reinstatement provision: typically within a set window, on evidence of insurability and payment of back premiums. Call us before you buy a new policy at your current age — reinstating an old one is often cheaper. Two more worth knowing: under ARS 20-1204 your policy is generally incontestable after two years, and under ARS 20-1215 claims are payable within two months of proof of death. Call us, even if we didn't sell you the policy.